Identity

You can lose yourself as quickly as you lose your interest in something. At what costs will we perform to be accepted by our society? Our identity.  Society has become one giant mind that adopts anything from the style of clothes to the catch phrases quoted horrendously.  No one who stood out in history was regarded by his peers as favorable to assimilation. 

If you're struggling with who you are sit down and write an about you.  If you can't write who you are, then you have no idea what you want. 

If you struggle writing, pick three things you love and write about those.  Write about your goals in three years, write about your goals in 5 years, write about your goals in 15 years.

Next write about what you want in your significant other.  Write about what things have happened in your life to make you, you. Write about things you want to do. Then read it. I promise you will see the you, you want to be.  And you will know what to do when you need to make choices about who you are and who you want to be.  I know after doing this it has helped me make better decisions in my job and what I do outside of my job.